Brian:
It's not really too important, it works about the same with most any value, or no reisitor at all. I used 1K, because that's what I found 2 of first in my resistor box. Worked very well.
Lewis
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The size of the resistor can approximate the headphone R, such as 16 ohms.
A larger R will lower the output volume, which may be advisable.
The page below is a mind-boggling array of bridge circuits for you. Your little old VCR won't appreciate the hours of sweat and calculations that went into the creation of most of these circuits.
Bottom of the page, a simple divider circuit using 10 ohm resistors, stereo to mono. That is the one I would choose to try.
https://www.google.ca/search?q=stereo+to+mono+bridge+circuit&hl=en&client=firefox-a&hs=1ar&tbo=u&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&channel=np&tbm=isch&source=univ&sa=X&ei=Sj3RUIKbHYmPiAKMxIDQAw&ved=0CGMQsAQ&biw=1280&bih=885
http://antiqueradio.org/iPodAdaptor.htm
I am presently using a tiny (1 watt?) output transformer that I got from AE many years ago. L and R from an earphone jack are combined and go to one lead of the secondary of the OT, ground for both to the other lead. The primary winding goes to an RCA jack. No fear of shorting an RCA jack, BTW. This works very well to match a CD player or ghetto blaster to an AM radio.
I have my 1933 Airline console radio playing FM Xmas music at the moment, no AM static. A Sony transistor radio sits discreetly in the back, tuned to a local FM station. An extension cord provides power to both and prevents wear and tear on the 80 year old power cord, which is still in good shape but not as supple as it used to be. Using the extension cord to disconnect reduces wear and tear on the old switch as well.
Happy Holidays to all!
http://www.oldradiosrus.com/build.html